(Hebrews 12:9&10) Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it.  How much more should we submit to the Father of spirits and live!  They disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, in order that we may share in his holiness.

Parents have the God given responsibility to discipline their children.  The child’s response to our discipline usually depends on our relationship with them.  The Word tells us that, our parents did what they thought best. This allows for the fact that we might not do it perfectly.

God desires to have a parenting relationship with his children.  God disciplines those who have become his children from his perfect and all-knowing position for our good.  Our response to God’s discipline varies depending on our relationship with him.

From the very beginning, humans have chosen to shun God’s discipline.  The result has been to separate us from him.  God, as the perfect parent in the midst of our rejection, has continued to love us, and he has worked throughout history to bring us back to relationship with him, even to the point of sending his only begotten Son to die for us.  (John 3:16) For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

God’s response to our rejection is to love us and work to restore relationship with us.  He has done the work, and he is patiently waiting for his children to return his love. Love and patience seem to be the best way to bring this about.

God has set the example for earthly parents. When our child rejects our discipline and strains the relationship, do the work; but do it with love and patience.  Prayer is the most important part of the work, and self-sacrifice will be required.  But always be waiting with the hope that they will return the love.