(Matthew 5:23&24) Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.
We have been looking at reconciliation between fallen mankind and God. Since God is holy and righteous, and man is a condemned sinner, there had to be a leveling of position for reconciliation to be possible. God had a great plan to bring this about. He sent his only begotten Son. Jesus gave us the righteousness we needed by paying for our sins on the cross. Jesus made it possible for us to be reconciled to God. All we have to do is receive what God has done.
Today let’s explore reconciliation between people. When it comes to person-to-person reconciliation, we are already on a level playing field with each other because we are all sinners. In cases between individual, there has to be a change from both sides for reconciliation to occur. However, in the above verses from Matthew, Jesus tells us to go and initiate the process.
Sometimes just our willingness to go to our brother or sister is enough to begin reconciliation. Other times when we go to someone they are totally unwilling to work with us. We can only do our part. The rest has to be given to prayer. I’m reminded that only God can truly change our hearts.
The apostle Paul tells us “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18). Reconciliation between us and our fellow humans is important. The love of God and the love he puts in our hearts for one another should encourages us to seek peace with each other. Confronting an issue that has come between us and a brother or sister is not always easy, but peace and restored fellowship is the goal that makes the effort worthwhile.