THE CORD OF THREE STRANDS

(Genesis 2:18) The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone.  I will make a helper suitable for him.”

Throughout our 44 years of marriage, there have been times when my wife and I have spent time away from each other.  We are currently in one of those seasons. My wife is away tending to a sick brother. I find it emotionally painful to be apart, but it is somewhat beneficial in that our desire for each other is heightened.  From the beginning God acknowledged that man has need for a companion.  Though not clearly stated, our companionship was never meant to exclude God.

Forty-four years ago, two sinners came together to form an intimate relationship.  Would this relationship last?  Ah, they had a distinct advantage.  They both had recently formed a strong relationship with their creator. From the start, God was at the center of their union. What that meant is that in hard, difficult times, they had God to turn to.  When times went well, they knew who to thank. 

So here I am sitting alone at my desk, and what is on my mind?  Gratefulness to God for this beautiful, wonderful woman he brought to me those many years ago.  God has been so good to us.  I am thoroughly convinced that God has been at the center of our successful marriage.

(Proverbs 18:22) He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.

(Ecclesiastes 4:12) Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.  A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

God’s presence in any relationship is vital, because with him you can form a strong bond. Thus, “a cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” In marriage his presence makes all the difference. 

SEEKING GOD

(Jeremiah 29:13) You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.

Mankind has always thought there was more to life than just his time on earth.  Our history shows that we have always searched for eternity.  In Ecclesiastes 3:11 Solomon tells us why, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.  He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.”  We search for eternity because God has placed it in our hearts.  We also know that there is a God because of the beauty of the creation in which we exist.  God is a mystery to be found, yet he does not hide himself from us.  We can find him if we seek him with all our heart.

There has always been, deep inside my consciousness, an awareness that God exists.  Through the years, I have developed a loving relationship with him.  How did this come about?  It came about when I came to a desperate place in my life, and I called out to him.  He answered me!  Since then, I have sought to know him. 

In those early years, during times of worship, I’d sing a song whose words were “I love you, Lord.”  I remember thinking, do I really love the Lord.  Today I can emphatically say “yes, I love you, Lord”, because I have spent time seeking him.  I have found him and developed a deep love for him.  Most of all, in those years of seeking him, I discovered his great love for me.

Jesus said, “Seek and you will find.”1 The writer of Hebrews said, “…anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.”2 All of us, who are followers of Jesus, know that these words are true.  Because we have sought after him, we have found him, and he has rewarded us with eternal life and an everlasting relationship with himself.

1Matthew 7:7

2Hebrews 11:6

THE END OF THE AGE – Part 2

(Matthew 24:9-13) “Then you will be handed over to be persecuted and put to death, and you will be hated by all nations because of me.  At that time many will turn away from the faith and will betray and hate each other, and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people.  Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved.”

In this passage, Jesus continues telling his disciples of the end times.  It doesn’t sound like a time when I’d want to be around.  However, I know that most of Jesus’ disciples were put to death and often tortured, so they experienced what Jesus was saying to them. 

The reality of many turning away from the faith, betraying, and hating each other brings a deep sadness to my heart.  Just think what that will be like.  Some of those we worship and fellowship with will turn their backs on Jesus and will become people who hate and betray us.  And can you imagine a world where wickedness has become so prevalent that the love of many will grow cold.  What an image of horror that brings.

Fortunately, there is an Exception Clause, “But the one who stands firm to the end will be saved.”  I love what the Apostle Peter said when Jesus asked the twelve disciples if they also wanted to leave (see John 6:67&68). Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go?  You have the words of eternal life.”  Eleven of the twelve stood firm until their end came, and multitudes of others have done the same through the years.  So, no matter what may come our way, let’s remember that only Jesus has the words of eternal life.

THE END OF THE AGE

(Matthew 24:3-8) As Jesus was sitting on the Mount of Olives, The disciples came to him privately.  “Tell us,” they said, “when will this happen [the destruction of the temple], and what will be the sign of your coming and of the end of the age?” Jesus answered: “Watch out that no one deceives you.  For many will come in my name, claiming, ‘I am the messiah,’ and will deceive many.  You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed.  Such things must happen, but the end is still to come.  Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom.  There will be famines and earthquakes in various places.  All these are the beginning of birth pains.”

Like the Disciples, we are all very curious about the end times and how this age will end.  Unlike the Disciples, we have the evening news to keep us informed about worldwide events, and as Jesus said, there are wars, earthquakes, and famines happening continuously throughout the earth. *These events are routine history in our fallen world and not signs of the end.  That is why Jesus tells us to not be alarmed.  As long as this age continues, manmade, and natural disasters will continue.

Jesus gives more details to his disciples throughout the rest of Matthew chapter 24; but in his parables about his return, he stresses being prepared for the end.  I believe that God will still be taking care of his children through it all. We won’t have to worry about his provision.  Our preparation then is to stay faithful to God, no matter what may come our way.  Jesus warns that many will fall away.  For us, staying with God is the only sure way to endure the end of the age. 

*(see Matthew 24:4-8 MSG)

THE SEVENTH DAY

(Exodus 34:21) Six days you shall labor, but on the seventh day you shall rest; even during the plowing season and harvest you must rest.

(Galatians 5:1) It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.  Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.

I chose these two scriptures for contrast.  From Exodus God says you shall rest on the seventh day.  In Galatians, the Apostle Paul tells us that we have been set free in Christ.  So, do we have to rest on the seventh day?

My answer to this question is: It’s no longer a “have to”; It’s a “get to”.  What I mean by that is the Law was a way to identify disobedience; we now live by faith.  In faith, I trust that God loves me.  His ways are now my desire.  I trust that when he says take a rest, it is advantageous for me.

The benefit of a seventh day rest is the opportunity to get closer to God and closer to our brothers and sisters.  There are many ways to get closer to God and our fellow believers.  Church is an obvious choice, but how about a walk in the park or down a country road with Jesus.  Maybe a cookout with friends and neighbors for fellowship.  The important goal of a seventh day rest is to first honor our creator.  He alone deserves our worship, and he alone loves us enough to die for us.  The other important purpose is to clear away the stresses and exhaustion of the other six days.

Observing the seventh day is not always possible, but it is always helpful.  I’m remembering that Jesus said the sabbath was made for man, not man for the sabbath.  God established six days of work and a seventh day for rest because he designed us and knew exactly what we would need. Mainly, he knew that we needed him.  He set aside a day of rest for us, so we could have the time to be nearer to him.

OUR LIFE COACH

(John 14:25&26) All this I have spoken while I was still with you.  But the Advocate, The Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.

Jesus died on the cross to be an atonement for the sins of the world.  This includes all sins past, present, and future.  I became a recipient of his great sacrifice when I surrendered to him and put my trust in him.  At that moment, The Father forgave all my sins: past, present, and future; and He sent the Holy Spirit to indwell me and become my teacher.

Since that beautiful experience of salvation, the Holy Spirit has led me on the path of righteousness.  When I falter, he corrects me; and I repent.  There were times when I resisted, but he never gave up on me.  He was training me to become more like Jesus.  I will still be in training till my last breath.

Justification means that our sins are forgiven. That happens when we receive salvation.  Sanctification is the training that happens throughout the rest of our time here in this world.  The Holy Spirit seals us to identify us as God’s children, and he then takes on the task of our sanctification.  You might say he is our life coach.

There have been times when the Holy Spirit has tasked me with going to someone I have sinned against and asked for their forgiveness.  Difficult as that was, It always produced good fruit for them and me.  Over the years, the Holy Spirit has trained me in what to do when I faulter.  I have learned to first go to the Father and repent and then ask the offended person or persons for forgiveness.  

I believe complete righteousness happens after we leave our physical body.  Until then, we will wrestle with our sinful nature and the temptation from the devil.  God loves us, and he has provided us with the Holy Spirit to teach and guide us through this life till we go home to him.

GOD’S WRATH

(John 3:36) Whoever believes in the son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them.

God is just. So, to think that there won’t be a reckoning for our sins is foolish.  Especially since he sent his Son to provide us with a way to avoid his judgment, and not only to avoid his judgement, but to be completely forgiven of our sins and become his children for all eternity.

Here in this life, we are all subject to the good and bad parts of life.  The difference is that God’s children, though they will die like everyone else, will go on to eternal life with their creator.  Those who reject what Jesus has offered will not see this eternal life, and they will be subject to God’s wrath.

All throughout the Old Testament, we have stories that tell of God’s wrath. For instance, the flood in which all but eight of the people on the earth were drowned, the destruction in Egypt when Pharaoh refused to let the Israelites leave, and Korah’s rebellion where the earth opened and swallowed up his whole clan (see Numbers chapter 16). Being under the wrath of God is a terrible thing.  This is God’s world, and he has the right to judge his created ones.  Aren’t we glad that he is long-suffering, gracious and full of love for us.

God has provided an easy way for us to avoid his wrath.  All we need to do is to accept the work of his Son who died for our sins.  Then we can begin a restored relationship with our God.  The only difficult part is that we must humbly acknowledge that we have sinned, and that we need forgiveness. We must repent.  If we refuse to acknowledge our need for Jesus, we will have to pay for our sins. The pride of mankind will lead us down a path of destruction. Wisdom says humble yourself and come join the children of God.  I can personally vouch that you will not be sorry.  It is the only logical choice.

THE DANGER OF THE UNSAVED WORLD

(Ephesians 4:17-19) So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking.  They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts.  Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, and they are full of greed.

Isn’t it interesting that the world around the Ephesian Christians sounds like the present-day world?  Think about the words “futility of their thinking”.  In our times there seems to be frequent opportunity to form the question, “what were they thinking”?  As you read through today’s scripture, I think you’ll find that the Apostle Paul clarifies why the thinking of the world of today is illogical. 

Paul wanted the Ephesians to be careful to not fall into the darkened understanding and separation from the life of God that was going on all around them.  The world has definitely not changed regarding its spiritual condition.  Therefore, Paul’s warning is as significant for God’s children today, as it was in his day.

The common statement, “we are in the world, but not of the world,”2 is relevant.  We are members of God’s eternal kingdom, and no longer of this fallen world.  We are the redeemed, so therefore, we need to allow the Holy Spirit to lead us into living as Jesus taught us.  Jesus said that we are salt and light to the world around us.  So not living as the unsaved world is paramount.  We cannot be salt and light for our neighbors, if we are living the same life as those who live in darkness.

2 see Jesus’ prayer in John Chapter 17

 TO OBEY

(1 John 2:3-6) We know that we have come to know him if we keep his commands.  Who ever says, “I know him,” but does not do what he commands is a liar, and the truth is not in that person.  But if anyone obeys his word, love for God is truly made complete in them.  This is how we know we are in him: Whoever claims to live in him must live as Jesus did.

When you think about the word obey, what comes to mind?  Do you cringe or perhaps get defensive?  These are normal reactions from us humans.  We don’t like someone telling us what to do. In order for us to want to obey God’s commands, a relationship of love and trust must develop.  I found this truth to be very helpful while working with children.  First, build a relationship with them, and then classroom control will be much easier.   We are much more likely to obey God’s commands, if we first enter into a relationship with him.

John tells us that if a person says they know God, but they don’t do what he commands that person is a liar.  I had an exchange with a young man once that illustrates this truth.  I asked him how he was doing with the Lord.  His response was that he was doing great with the Lord.  I knew that he was intimidating others to gain what he wanted from them, and he was selling drugs.  I therefore knew that he was lying about his relationship with the Lord.  At least I knew how to pray for him.

What are God’s commands? Jesus gave us a simple answer to this question and that is to love God and to love others.  Obeying these simple commands is not that simple because it requires us to surrender our will to God.  We give God the center place in our lives, and he teaches us how to love others.  That is not easy, but it is the best way to navigate this life.

 When we let go and put our trust in God, life becomes so much sweeter.  That’s why the song says, “Trust and obey – for there’s no other way – to be happy in Jesus – than to trust and obey.” *

*Song: Trust and Obey – written by John Sammis

LOVE AND RIGHTEOUSNESS

(Romans 13:8-10) Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.  The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “you shall not steal,” “You shall not covet,” and whatever other command there may be, are summed up in this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”  Love does no harm to a neighbor.  Therefor love is the fulfillment of the law.

In its simplest form the definition of righteousness is doing what is right.  These words from Paul’s letter to the Romans connect us to the relationship of love and righteousness.  If we love, we will be motivated to do the right thing toward others. If we don’t love, the desire to do right is overshadowed by the desire for self-indulgence.  Therefore, we can conclude that love is necessary in our quest to be righteous. 

When we love others, we please God because we are following his commands.  Jesus said that loving God and loving your neighbor covers all the commands of God.  In the familiar scripture from 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, Paul defines love.  This is a great passage to help us clarify what it means to love others.

To achieve righteousness, these scriptures give us all that we need.  The Holy Spirit will work God’s love into us.  The more we humble ourselves, and receive the work of the Holy Spirit, the more we will be filled with God’s love and be vessels of his love to others.