In the beginning, Adam and Eve had no hindrance to being in the presence of the Lord. After their disobedience, they entered a whole new perception. They had gained self-awareness. With self-awareness comes concern for self. How do I look? What are they thinking of me? What should I do? Concern for self hinders our ability to enter the presence of the Lord.
An internal battle commences each time I want to spend time with the Lord. There is always one more thing to do before I can start. Everything I forgot to do somehow miraculously comes to mind. (I should make a list.) When I finally do get situated, my mind scatters to a thousand thoughts. As I strive to get my mind settled, I realize I haven’t tuned my guitar in a while. I like to start my time with the Lord singing a few songs of praise. The guitar turns out to be in pretty good tune, but it’s always good to check. Then it’s, what song to begin with, and what key is that in?
Finally I begin to sing. Boy, my voice is getting old. That note used to be so clear. Wow, this is a great worship song. If I ever lead worship again, I’ll have to include this song. Then I realize I’ve sung through the entire song without a conscious thought about who I’m singing to. I cried out, “Help me Lord.” I sang the song through a few more times trying to focus my mind. Then the Lord spoke to me, “Write about this struggle.”
All along he knew what I was there for. I wanted to hear from him about what to write this week. In his humble way, he answered the question I didn’t ask. A rush of gratefulness entered my heart. My self-concern was put aside. I then enter into his presence and worshipped. God had made a way!
One of the difficulties followers of Jesus face in our current society is avoiding the consumer mentality. “Let’s go shopping” is the call. We get to buy things and spend money. There is never an end to what we can buy, but unfortunately there is an end to the money we have to spend. Running out of money is a definite downer. We are then driven to figure out how we can get more money. Living the consumer life never brings us satisfaction.
I have been reading through Matthew chapters 5-7, and as I read it occurred to me that Jesus is redirecting his disciples’ way of thinking. Jesus taught his disciples to think differently. He wanted them to put aside self-concerns and focus on the Kingdom of God. Paul restates Jesus’ teaching in Romans 12:1-2,
So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life – your sleeping, eating, going to work, and walking around life – and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what he wants from you, and quickly respond to it. Unlike the culture around you, always dragging you down to its level of immaturity, God brings the best out of you, develops well-formed maturity in you (The Message).
If we allow him, Jesus will change our way of thinking. He will transform our minds. Let me recap what Paul is saying. We should take everything about our lives and place it before God as an offering. Then we should humbly accept what he has done for us. Our way of thinking is not about what we can do for him, but what he has done for us. So with a heart of gratitude, we fix our attention on him, and receive the new way of thinking that he works into us. This allows us to do what he sets before us without distraction. The result, “God brings the best out of us, develops well-formed maturity in us.”
In the Bible the word “worry” is always preceded by “do not” or “why do you”. Jesus doesn’t want us to worry because it hinders our ability to live in the peace and freedom that He purchased for us. He wants us to trust Him and not worry. He speaks to this topic in Mathew 6:25-34. Jesus explains that our focus should not be on what we will have to eat or what clothes we will wear but on the Father’s kingdom and His righteousness. God is going to walk us through the problems of today, and He has already worked out what’s going to happen tomorrow. Yes, there are difficulties and trials for today, but don’t miss the blessings of today by worrying about what might happen tomorrow. As the word says, “… For tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough troubles of its own (Matthew 6:34).”
It is very difficult to give up worrying. Worrying is a human coping mechanism. Somehow by working things over and over in our minds, we feel like we have some control. Yet as we work the process of worrying, we pay the high price of anxiety. Anxiety does all kinds of damage to our physical and emotional well-being. Jesus knows this.
How do we get beyond worry? The Apostle Paul gives us solid directions. In Philippians 4:4-7 (The Message) he writes:
Celebrate God all day, every day. I mean revel in Him! Make it as clear as you can to all you meet that you’re on their side, working with them and not against them. Help them see that the Master is about to arrive. He could show up any minute! Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God’s wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It’s wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life.
I have often made statements like, “I’m ready to go as soon as God calls me home,” or “I wish I could go to heaven right now.” However, the result of a recent doctor visit brought home the reality that life as I know it could end. The vague idea that life will end came crashing down on the certainty that life will end. I saw the above statements as flippant and poorly thought out utterances. A new perspective has inundated my soul. This life is precious and should be cherished.
God gave me life, and I have experienced the delights of his natural world. Yes, there is both good and evil here, but I have never failed to explore and enjoy this world’s beauty. My wife, children, extended family, and friends have afforded me a life full of joy and love. Tragedies and losses have come my way, but they serve to round out the experience. This world is all I know. Everything that defines life to me has happened here in this temporal existence.
When I die, I will leave all of this and go to a new place that is beyond my experience. Someday, I will leave here to go to a new place – I can only imagine. Life as I know it will be over.
Faith now comes to the foreground. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding” (Proverbs 3:5). Even though I will be going to an unknown place, I can trust God with the unknown.
So I will not take this life for granted, or belie its importance, but I will cherish it as a precious gift from God himself.
During this time of giving and receiving gifts, we should remember the importance of gratitude. Gratitude is a feeling of appreciation. “I feel gratitude in my heart”. It is a learned way of handling what we receive. We teach our little ones to say thank you, but gratitude is not our natural bent. We have to develop and exercise gratitude.
Being grateful is very important. We read in 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
Giving thanks is a part of God’s will for us. Recent studies by psychologists can tell you why this is God’s will. Here are some of the results they’ve found:
It helps build relationships
Improves physical health
Improves mental health
Enhances empathy and reduces aggression
Increases mental strength
(Consult the below reference for more details.)
7 Scientifically Proven Benefits Of Gratitude That Will Motivate You To Give Thanks Year-Round, http://www.Forbes.com, Amy Morin, 11-23-2014
Living our lives as people of gratitude not only fulfills God’s will for us, but as he intended, it affords us a happier, healthier way of living. So let us be encouraged. Develop and exercise this all important trait.
We all have troubles that come our way; they are a part of life in this fallen world. I tend to draw into myself when troubles arise. I focus on solving the problem; I worry over the problem, and I lose sleep thinking about the problem. If the problem is long term, I eventually fall into despair. Then I enter into that dark cavern of self-pity. Once again, I have succumbed to the trap of inward focus.
You’d think I’d know better, but alas I find myself caught again. In this state, I don’t pray for others, I’m not very kind, and I don’t have time for others. Inward focus makes me useless to those I love and not very pleasant to be around. When I finally come to the end of myself, I cry out to the Lord, “Save me!”
The lord, in his patient and kind way, reminds me that I need to trust my troubles to him. He redirects my focus to the needs of others, and I begin to look outward. To my amazement, life becomes brighter, and my troubles become less important. By putting my troubles in the hands of the only one who can do anything about them, the burden is lifted. I can actually become a nice guy.
Will I fall into this trap again? I hope not. The “pit of despair” is not a nice place.
Why are you down cast O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.
I found out that Praising God is the first step out of the trap.
Webster’s Dictionary defines meek:
1 Enduring injury with patience and without resentment – submissive – humble
2 Deficient in spirit and courage
The first definition doesn’t convey the characteristics of weakness but of Christ likeness. This definition speaks of the qualities Jesus displayed on the cross. It is a Godly perspective. The second definition imparts thoughts of weakness, timidity, and cowardice. This is a worldly perspective. Which of these will inherit the earth?
In 2 Corinthians chapter 10 the Apostle Paul responds to the to the Corinthians’ worldly interpretation of his meekness. He uses a little sarcasm in verse 1 when he states: “By the meekness and gentleness of Christ, I who am “timid” when face to face with you, but “bold” when away!” They had obviously accused him of being cowardly. He goes on to let them know that his meek/humble approach to them was not out of weakness but out of caring for them. He was trying to change their viewpoint from worldly to Godly.
I believe that the ones who endure the injuries of this world with patience and without resentment, who are submissive to Christ, and who humble themselves before their God will inherit the earth. These are not weak people. They are the ones who have been overwhelmed by the love of Christ, and from their humble thankfulness give that love to others regardless of the cost. This takes strength and courage.